“Hard time creates hard men
Hard men create soft times
Soft time create weak men
Weak men create hard times”
In 21st century, we are living through soft times. In general, majority of people are not facing any major survival issues. We have food, water, shelter, entertainment, and other elements to enjoy a fairly luxurious life. There is no global famine or drought, construction companies are building millions of houses, OTT platforms are publishing one show after another. Especially if you look at America, they have a so-called perfect social system, where jobless people are given allowances. As a result, they don’t get enough motivation to rise up on their own feet. Also, as there is no survival crisis, they create new problems in the society; as an example, problems like infinite number of genders. Also, psychosocial issues like depression, drug abuse, sexual harassment are very high in western world. 20% Americans [AP1] suffer from depression. 17 out of 100 [AP2] US kids start using drugs from age 12. 1 out of 6 [AP3] woman is victim of serious sexual assault. On the other hand, if you look at India, in spite of a high population, these stats are lower. 4.5 % Indians [AP4] are suffering from depression. 6.8% Indians [AP5] under 18 use drugs. 2 out of 10000 [AP6] women are victims of serious sexual assault in India. I am not saying that India is in a great position, rather I would emphasise on the fact that these stats often increase on a yearly basis. In my opinion this is happening because we are going through soft times. People have too much luxury and idle time to be depressed, to use drugs and to think about acting irresponsibly.
These days parents are quite soft and they are not upbringing children with discipline. Too much freedom is harmful because- to utilise freedom, one has to act responsibly. Look at our freedom fighters who sacrificed for freedom; they were not careless. They had certain personalities that we cannot easily possess because it is situational; environment and situation toughened them up. We are not under anyone’s rule now, at least that is the narrative we are told to believe in. Actually, we are slaves of dopamine. This is why we use social media or watch porn. If you feel like you don’t have power, it’s because you don’t deserve it. No one owes you power or respect unless you become worthy.
We, humans are fool because:
- We want power, but we don’t want to take any responsibilities. This goes for both men and women. We need to understand that no one ‘deserves’ anything. Everything has to be earned and also, we should be careful about what we wish for because every prayer needs some type of sacrifice to be fulfilled. Today’s world gives equality, but it means that there are equal opportunities rather than equal results. You are free to choose a particular career, but whether you will be successful in that or not, depends on your efforts. You are free to take a decision, but then you have to also face the consequences that come along. Because, the sacrifice needed for success in one field, may affect your success in another field.
- We think that the world revolves around our feelings. In reality, world works based on mostly actions not feelings. If you ‘feel’ like something ‘should’ happen or you ‘should’ get something, you are just being self-entitled. The world does not care about ‘should’- ‘would’- ‘could’. Sure, desires matter as everything starts from wishes, but for the wish to come true, one has to make efforts.
- We trust too blindly based on only words, not actions. From choosing a partner to voting a politician, everywhere we trust the wrong person without judging. No matter how many times someone tells you that it is not right to judge someone, you need to ignore that. Because it is necessary to judge. Blind faith has always been harmful. As an example, when Vasco da Gama came [AP7] in Calicut port (late 1400s), king Zamorin invited him thinking he would act as a link between the East and the West. At that time, Arab merchants were dominant suppliers in the markets of Calicut. European goods were not good enough, but still Zamorin gave the new merchants a chance to sell the European goods in Indian market. Though the Arabs made Zamorin aware about the untrustworthy character of pirates, the king did not take any actions. Later Vasco da Gama allied [AP8] with Haider Ali, one of the enemies of Zamorin and started a war against him. Zamorin lost his kingdom and was killed by the Portuguese. The moral of this story is that, you need to critically analyse a person’s intention by their actions. Be simple but not naïve. And for this, you need to have a guide in life who has seen life. Even, in choosing this guide, you need to be skeptical. For the same reasons, we need to stop believing in random Facebook posts. Did you know that 97% [AP9] rapes in India are done by a known relative??
- We are fools because we believe in the narrative of equality. Let’s get it straight, men and women are not equal physically, emotionally, sexually. We are just good at different things. If you try to behave like the other gender, there will be imbalance in your life and society. Also, in a relationship, there is no equality, each side always has to compromise more on different things; and the other side might look at these things as insignificant. As an example, a wife may get irritated to wash the dishes every night, but to the husband, it is an insignificant task. On the other hand, the husband may think his office works are hard but the wife may consider it to be insignificant. To carry on in a relationship, compromising and tolerance is more important than love.
- We are fools because we think that degree means education. It’s not; education is sanskaar of being dutiful and disciplined. Unfortunately, our current education system is not teaching it. If there are 100 students passing from a B-school, the director of the B-school will be the most successful instead of the students.
- We are fools because we think we are the smartest among all. We think that we are equal to God. Let’s get it straight; you are not Krishna if you are just a pimp. You are not Kali if you make Instagram posts about feminism. It’s just self-entitlement and idiotic. Sure, we all have God inside us but unless we open the doorways to attain that spirituality, we can’t access that power. And once attained, you don’t need to declare that you are a god, others will bow down automatically before you. If you feel like you are oppressed and no one respects you, it is because you haven’t done anything to deserve respect.
The good thing is, the faster we realise that we are fools, the faster we will be open to learn and move towards the adventurous path of enlightenment.
Upright meaning
In tarot, the Fool card is often associated with new beginnings, spontaneity, and taking risks. When the card is upright, it generally signifies positive traits such as innocence, open-mindedness, and a willingness to take a leap of faith. The upright Fool may represent a person who is carefree, adventurous, and unburdened by the past.
Reverse meaning
On the other hand, when the Fool card is reversed, it may indicate negative traits such as recklessness, naivety, and a lack of direction. The reversed Fool may represent a person who is not taking responsibility for their actions, or who is making poor decisions without considering the consequences. It could also suggest a fear of change or a reluctance to take risks.
[AP1]https://mhanational.org/issues/state-mental-health-america
[AP2]https://www.verywellmind.com/us-has-highest-levels-of-illegal-drug-use-67909
[AP3]https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence
[AP4]https://mindvoyage.in/depression-in-india-latest-statistics/#:~:text=Every%20year%2C%20about%202%2C00%2C000,the%20cases%20stand%20at%2056%2C675%2C969.
[AP5]https://www.indexmundi.com/india/age_structure.html
https://www.dw.com/en/is-india-on-the-brink-of-a-drug-and-alcohol-abuse-crisis/a-64217066
[AP6]https://www.quora.com/Why-India-is-considered-as-the-rape-capital-of-the-world
[AP7]https://www.britannica.com/biography/Vasco-da-Gama/The-second-voyage
[AP8]https://www.britannica.com/biography/Vasco-da-Gama/The-second-voyage
[AP9]https://www.india.com/news/india/over-96-per-cent-rape-cases-india-committed-by-persons-known-to-the-victims-ncrb-report-5613362/
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